Coregulation and Pain

 

We affect others with our pain and others effect us. Co- regulation can decrease or increase pain Learn more at https://empoweredselfhealing.com

Coregulation is really a phenomenon of human existence. We share feelings, emotions, thoughts, physical interactions and unconscious energy when we are in the same place. The physiological measurements of co-regulation is a recent area of study. The activity of the autonomic nervous system; cortisol, oxytocin, vagal tone (an activity of the vagus nerve which is involved in heart rate regulation) have all been measured with respect to co-regulation.

When we are in any place together each of us is actually having an effect on someone else and they have an effect on us. More so if we have a caregiving or long-term relationship. When the people around the chronic pain sufferer are fatigued and upset, then the person in pain is affected. This coregulation is the beauty and the difficulty of human interaction.

It can seem like an impossible task but when we are in pain – especially chronic pain – we want to be very careful whom we have in our close circle. Pain lessens when we are at ease and when we have fun, play and laugh. So the joy of coregulation is that we feel better around people who are positive and help us to be positive. And we are happier in familiar environments.

It is very difficult to coregulate in a hospital or nursing home setting with roommates who are depressed or drugged. Therefore, if at all possible go home quickly to heal or find a beautiful place to gain strength and decrease pain. If we are faced with low energy from others and are not around energizing people than the suffering stays the same.

Proven to make a difference: children and support animals visiting nursing homes lessen the pain of residents. And how do they accomplish that? Coregulation. We need to recognize that we are regulating other people and they are regulating us.  We energetically share the same space. So even without words when other people are tense then the pain sufferer will naturally tense, which increases pain.  Our bodies pick up what is available from others. A calm and happy interaction is much more healing. Move away from the people that are feeling depressed and anxious and move towards people that have the opposite effect.

The mammalian nervous system finds two cues as extremely important. Labeled by science lethal cues, one is restraint and the other one is isolation. Either one will increase pain.

Isolation is a problem for most pain sufferers especially the bed bound. Texting as communication can be looked at as a metaphor of being isolated. We can not get the healing cues of a hug or kiss or handhold by text. We need to have face to face connection. So the issue of where we are and how isolated we are makes a big difference in healing and reducing pain. When we’re not isolated we can have positive reinforcement and lessen our fear of abandonment.

Restraint is the other cue that is problematic for chronic pain sufferers. Anxiety can be high in certain group settings and if one person is in pain that does affect others. For example, one crying baby in nursery affects all the babies and they all begin to cry.

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Although restraints used in healthcare settings are decreasing because of lethal outcomes, various settings use physical restraint as a measure designed to protect both patient and staff. The extent to which restraints can be classified as therapeutic interventions is questionable: their efficacy as therapeutic measures has not been empirically demonstrated. And when in pain the sufferer will only feel an increase in pain from restraints in the long term. When a person is restrained, there will be a cascade of stress chemicals, which may temporarily seem to end pain (we don’t want to notice a pain in the foot running from a tiger) but that does not mean that the foot is not signaling. Using restraints on a pain sufferer does not help with feeling safe and calm. Those feelings are the ones that in the long term create a painfree life.  

Very few chronic pain sufferers are able to self-regulate enough to separate a pain signal from suffering. But coregulation by a positive loved one can make all the difference.  This, in fact, can create greater resources for the sufferer to self-regulate.

When we are all consciously aware of this fact of human existence then there can be a big step forward to lessen pain and empower our self healing.

 

 

References

Butler, E. A., & Randall, A. K. (2013). Emotional Coregulation in Close Relationships. Emotion Review, 5(2), 202–210. 

Coan, J. A., Schaefer, H. S., & Davidson, R. J. (2006). Lending a hand: Social regulation of the neural response to threat. Psychological Science, 17, 1032–1039

Leerkes, E. M., & Wong, M. S. (2012). Infant Distress and Regulatory Behaviors Vary as a Function of Attachment Security Regardless of Emotion Context and Maternal Involvement. Infancy, 17(5), 455–478.

Sbarra, D. A., & Hazan, C. (2008). Coregulation, Dysregulation, Self-Regulation: An Integrative Analysis and Empirical Agenda for Understanding Adult Attachment, Separation, Loss, and Recovery. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 12(2), 141–167. 

Children and the elderly

The Effects of Preschoolers’ Visits to a Nursing Home Carol Seefeldt, PhD The Gerontologist, Volume 27, Issue 2, 1 April 1987, Pages 228–232,

What happens when a nursing home and a daycare center share a roof?

Less pain for seniors

Restraints

Adverse-Effects-Associated-With-Physical-Restraint

 

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